I am an alpha female. We don't play well with many other females for the simple fact, our personalities are just too strong but my heart is still soft. The fact some females NEED a tag along says a lot, just sayin!
I cannot even begin to explain how wrong the comment is about stopping eating disorders and self harm. People don't chose to have a mental disorder and producing a realistic Barbie doll won't stop mental disorders. Some people are so ignorant.
The things we have to do to stay safe. Though I think you should verbally demand he remove his hand first before you physically remove it. Hurting someone is so much better if you warn them first and they continue to make a poor decision.