it sure does begin in our minds.and not only for addictions. you can also include insecurities, low self esteem and trust issues . thats a big one it affeced my relationship with the most beautiful woman in the world.
BPD quote - It doesn't matter how many times a person tells me they like me. I always think they can change their mind instantly. Always with the fear of rejection. I know it may bot be a reality, but it feels very real.