It's really that simple. We gave up when THEY NEVER wanted to be around OUR KIDS, or be there for THEM, like we ALWAYS were for their kids! Finally we said enough, and THEY make bullshit excuses about us, instead of being truthful to their kids!
I moved out but still didn't give up. He said he was moving out multiple times and gave up on us 2 months after marriage? I had to leave because of the escalation of erratic behavior and threats of violence.
Trust me, she knew who she was dancing with the entire time. She just chose to see the good in everybody. I personally don't think she should change that about herself. It's possible her energy could even bring out the best in the devil