High maintenance: men's way of pulling down women who treat-yo-self . I've never used it this way- I've always thought of it as emotional dependency and instability. Emotionally High maintenance people *do* burden their significant others though
The older I get, ;the more I realize the value of privacy, of cultivating your circle and only letting certain people in. You can be open, honest, and real while still understanding not everyone deserves a seat at the table of your life.