when she transformed into a butterfly, the caterpillars spoke not of her beauty, but of her weirdness. they wanted her to change back into what they always had been,. but she had wings. Life is change.use your wings.
There's no point in consistently worrying about everything. What will happen will happen regardless. So breath, look on the bright side. Have some laughs, fall in love, accept what you can't change, and carry on. To actually live is courageous.