Hard to do for someone who over-analyzes EVERYTHING! But its important to get this straight in your head. You can move past the surface and try to understand the deeper workings of someone elses actions when you take yourself out of the equation.
Q: How can I piss off my narcissist without hell raining down on me in the process? Part 1 A: There are only two ways to consistently piss off your narcissist so that you make their lives as miserable as they’ve made yours: IGNORE THEM.
breakups hurt, but losing someone who doesn't respect and appreciate you is actually a gain, not a loss. (this goes for friendship breakups, too.I know this, just had to "breakup" with a so-called friend)