So your task is to make a series of ‘treat cards‘ on which you write activities that you would like your partner to do for you. Examples include: relaxing together by the fireplace or taking an evening walk, going shopping together, taking pictures of each other, giving each other a massage, cooking a favorite dish, surprising the other with a wild bunch of flowers, clearing out a part of the spare room or garage, buying theater or film tickets ….. and so on! Here’s an example ....