I knew the moment I saw her face that there was going to be a problem. Her face was crumpling, and I knew tears wouldn't be far behind. Sally had just finished her dance class. Her teacher gave her and her two classmates each a certificate of participation, but the taller blond girl who had fulfilled all the requirements and was ready to move up to the next class got a ribbon. And Sally didn't. And in Sally's four-year-old mind, this was a disaster.