Relationships last longer when no body knows your business. ~ plus it's not like it will be kept a secret.people you don't even know will know all about you and what goes on in your relationship, like my bff for example :p
We should spend our lives empowering others, building them up and not tearing them down. Giving people the most honest love you can does so much for the soul. Be loving, be respectful and watch them transform into something amazing.