Rest is not idleness, and to lie sometimes on the grass under trees on a summer's day, listening to the murmur of the water, or watching the clouds float across the sky, is by no means a waste of time.
"love is different. love is choosing to serve someone in spite of their filthy heart. love is patient and kind, love is deliberate. love is hard. love is pain and sacrifice, it's seeing the darkness in another person and defying the impulse to jump ship.
Your silence gives consent. Stand up for what you believe in, don't expect others to speak up with your best interests in mind. If you don't know what those are, or you don't value them enough to speak them aloud, how will they?