Pay Close Attention To her!When she's "asking questions" she is trying to gain clarity. When she's quite and letting things "slide" she is giving up. And when she's not doing any of the above just know you lost a good woman.
It's hard for me to love myself when my own mother despises me. It's difficult to comprehend how a mother can choose to hurt her offspring rather than love us. This fact makes learning to love myself the hardest thing I've ever done.