Quite possibly, this is the cruelest thing that you could do to someone. Particularly when you don't understand it or only know part of the truth (at best), anyway. Let people live; let people learn. (Those are not my words but well said.
"It's very possible and very okay to forgive someone and still not want to spend time with them." A key thing to remember when people are pressuring you to forgive an abusive spouse and give him another chance.