I know that sounds strange, but I fear loving another for just that reason - trust. If the same thing were to happen ever again, I truly don't think I'd be able to come out the other side like I did before. So. let's just keep it simple, shall we?
THE KEY TO LONGEVITY IS TO SIMPLIFY YOUR THOUGHTS & LIFE. DO NOT COMPLICATE LIFE. HAVE CLARITY & SERENITY IN MIND. BE ACTIVE AND POSITIVE, ALWAYS WITH THE EXPECTATION THAT EVERYTHING’S GONNA BE FINE. NEVER FEEL ANXIOUS. AND ENJOY YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST.
Remember, you are training your mind. You are either training to look for things to go wrong or you are training it to look for anything to go right. Train yourself to think only positive thoughts. Karon Waddell
Receiver vs Feeder Mindset Let go of the receiver mindset; the idea that it's not we who make our way in the world, it's what happens to us. Adopt a feeder mindset; the ability to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances. Reality is just a question of perception, and it changes according to what we think we are going to see.
Live in the Moment, Empty Your Mind of the Trash, Wisdom is the Use of Knowledge Dan Millman
HOW YOU FEEL IS ENTIRELY IN YOUR MIND Say you’re sitting in a cubicle and you hate your job. Your boss and everyone around are just idiots. But in five minutes you are about to leave for your first vacation you’ve had in five years. You’re going to be gone for two weeks at this beautiful Bora Bora seaside bungalow. It’s literally the most lavish thing you’ve ever done in your entire life. How would you feel? You would feel great. Now imagine that you are in Bora Bora.
“It is our own mental attitude which makes the world what it is for us. Our thought make things beautiful, our thoughts make things ugly. The whole world is in our own minds. Learn to see things in the proper light.