I find memory can be a beautiful thing yet a curse. It holds precious things from your past, victories, happiness, etc. But it can also hold your failures and things that have hurt you. Keep the good memories close and forget the bad ones.
i sometimes call my husband an d ask him to listen to a song because the lyric are what i'm feeling at that moment. He always calls me back after listening to the song telling me "how much he love me and that he's a lucky man " .