This is so sweet, I cannot relate but I hope it eases someone else's heart. "I tell myself that the babies I've lost went to heaven to be held by a mom in heaven that died in child birth and didn't get to hold her babies.
So sad. I do want to point out the men get raped as well, by both men and women so it's not just about "evil men" and "helpless women" although it's usually the case. < it just said rapists, without pointing out genders at all.