don't keep people ın your life who insistently point out your insecurities with their dirty fingers! ''I have insecurities, of course, but I don't hang out with anyone who points them out to me'' - Adele
"Love & attraction" -- you attract the right things when you have a sense of who you are.when you attract love and companionship, you have a great sense of who you are, what you want & who you want/prefer to share your sense of attraction with :-))).
One thing at a time. Know the problem. Learn to listen. Learn to ask. Distinguish sense from nonsense. Accept change as inevitable. Say it simple. Be calme. How to work better, ten simple things that make a huge difference.